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Do
you think that opposites attract?I think that opposites fit well together... I don't think
they necessarily attract.
Jeremy, 14
Highlands Ranch, CO USA
I'd say my husband and I compliment each
other. I am pretty loud (OK Laura,very loud on occasion) and out going, my husband is
quiet and not one to speak up during a conversation. But our basic core values are the
same. What we want out of life are the same.
Janet, 44
E. Brunswick, NJ USA
I think sometimes it just seems that way,
but when push comes to shove, there's usually some strong common bond.
Fisch, 47
Preston, CT
USA
I think that it is very
true...opposites always do seem to attract. However, I don't always think they belong
together in a relationship. Friendship can work,
but sometimes it's disastrous for love life!
Tracy, 24
Ocean City, NJ USA
yes i believe they do (most of the time
anyway)
Brad, 21
Sydney AUSTRALIA
Opposites in temperament can compliment each
other. Opposites in morals or values or ethics have nothing in common--except, perhaps,
lust.
Jill, 61
Saylorsburg, PA USA
No. I've tried it and it didnt work for me.
Tam
Sometimes. I think the best matches are
people with complementary personalities and interests, neither too much the same nor too
divergent.
Jane, 62
West Linn, OR
USA
I don't really know. I think they
CAN, but not necessarily always. My wife and I are
certainly NOT opposites, but before marriage I did date a few women that were basically my
opposite. I guess it just depends on what a person is looking for.
Doug2, 29
Overland Park, KS USA
I think the common set of opposites I've
seen is where you have someone is when someone who is a bit more of a control freak is
with someone who can go along with almost anything. The control freak might be attracted
by his or her opposite but the other is probably just hanging out for the lack of something better to do.
Alias Irrelevante
Sometimes. But that doesn't mean they'll get
along well.
Judy, 62
Easton, KS USA
Sometimes... Sometimes not.
Nicci, 27
Las Vegas, NV
USA
As far as magnets are concerned, yes. People
are less predictable.
Karen, 22
Ames, IA
USA
Let me put it this way...if
opposites did attract, well, somebody who loathed pro
wrestling, who thought writing and reading are a waste of time...who was a lazy bozo who
never worked, and hated animals would be my bag...and that damn sure is not the case...for
me, opposites are not my bag...
Luki, 31
Valhalla
Only if they're magnets.
Eric, 20
Beverly Hills, CA USA
I think so. Maybe it's because each side has
"holes" that the other side fills in, making the thing a "whole".
Reba, 50+
Silver Spring, MD USA
I think they can, but there comes a point
where having too little in common can be an issue.
Angela, 18
Bella Vista, AR USA
Sometimes. Who knows what magic creates
chemistry between two people.
Felicia, 36
Lowell, MA
USA
I do think opposites attract, but
only to fight. Two stubborn people who are opposites come together at first because they
are open minded and accept the other. When the relationship continues, either they will
end up in a fight and then they will split up or they will stay together and one person
would have changed. Some people change with resentment.
Which may result in a split.
Christopher, 28
San Mateo, CA
USA
Sure thing! I feel we're all very curious
about the "unknown" , so to speak. Mystery has a power that pulls anyone in, and
when you meet someone who's your oppositte, you probably don't know too much about what
they do, or why they do things. It's mysterious and intruiging, therefore attractive!
Triana, 29
Austin, TX
USA
It sure did with my husband and me.
Laura, 37
Lowell, MA
USA
Not really. For a brief time, I
suppose, but eventually the differences seem to create
a divide, a breach in understanding. My boyfriend and I are very different but also very
alike, and our similarities strengthen our relationship.
Cancer, 20
NYC, NY
USA
Yup. While I'm currently seeing someone that
is very similar to me (personality-wise), I am usually attracted to people that are quite
different from me. Whether or not any of them were ever attracted to me, however, is a
different story. :)
Hikaru, 19
PA USA
Opposites do attract.
Patty, 19
San Marcos, TX USA
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