December 22, 2002
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Have you ever given up something you really wanted in order to make someone else happy?

Of course.

Laura, 37
Lowell, MA USA

Nothing comes to mind at the moment.

Alias Irrelevante

I don't think I have

Savannah, 17
Melbourne, FL USA

Of course...I think everyone has in one way or another.

Tracy, 24
Ocean City, NJ USA

Ive never been put into that position to have that option.

Talia, 25
Tallahassee, FL USA

I'm a mother. I've been doing bits and pieces of that for over 16 years now and look forward to continuing for many many years to come.

Fisch, 47
Preston, CT USA

No. I don't remember ever having to make that choice, unless you count something like having the last piece of pie.

Cathie, 53
Novi, MI USA

Not that I can remember. However, if you really did it out of your own volition, you might not remember it after a while. The reward of the choice takes precedence over lingering memories of things once longed for.

Firelady, 24
Frisco, TX USA

I give up stuff all the time to make my son happy.

Tam

I think anyone who has ever had children or been married has to answer "yes" to this question.

Reba, 57
Gaithersburg, MD USA

Of course. Doesn't everyone?

Jill, 61
Saylorsburg, PA USA

Of course. Every single damn day (not that I'm bitter...)

Keri-Jade, 23
Brampton, Ontario CANADA

Yes, and most times I've ended up happier than if I had kept it.

Jane, 63
West Linn, OR USA

I'm sure I have, more than once. But I don't remember those things. I think even the fact of remembering it would be self-serving, sort of proof to yourself that you can sacrifice your own wants for those of others.

Doug2, 30
Kansas City, KS USA

Sure did. My freedom when I got married.

You Me

If I did, I don't remember it. I don't have a lot of wants, but if I really want something, my husband usually see that I get it. I would give up a lot for my husband, if he asked me to, but he doesn't.

Judy, 62
Easton, KS USA

Probably. But if I did, I'm sure I held a grudge about it.

Karen, 23
Ames, IA USA

All the time. I'm a Mom.

Janet, 45
E. Brunswick, NJ USA

You don't have kids, do you?

KarenNJ, 25
Milltown, NJ USA

Yesterday / Tomorrow