April 30, 2003
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Where you ever "Bullied" in school?

Yeah, a bit when I was in grade school. I was a very fat kid.

Felicia, 37
Lowell, MA USA

NO. I was always at least a head taller than anyone else in school. Too big to mess with. I was taller than most of my teachers. I was 5'9" in 5th grade. (remember I am a girl) and 5'11 by 7th grade. I was picked on and called Jolly Green Janet or Big Bird (My mother bought my a yellow
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Janet, 45
E. Brunswick, NJ USA

No. No one ever tried to bully me and I wasn't a bully, either.

Cathie, 53
Novi, MI USA

I can't say that I was bullied, but I was picked on because I was scrawny, had wild hair, buck teeth and wore glasses. The best two weeks of my life in elementary school were when I got my hair cut in a gypsy shag which was very flattering. But my mom didn't want to fool with my hair every morning, so when it went back to its normal wildness, my 15-minutes of popularity wore off. Sad. I wish there was a way to communicate to children how mean their words and actions can be.

Cindy, 41
VA USA

Who hasn't been bullied in school? Only the bully?

Laney, 60
TX USA

A few times through out the years.

Ryan, 29
Riedlingen GERMANY

Yep... My Sophomore year of high school... A junior named Danny Langley was my nemesis. For most of the first semester, he bullied me, taunted me, scared the bejeezus out of me. Over Christmas break, I was on a date at a movie. He walked in with his girlfriend and sat down right in front of us (of course, he had to glare at me for a bit). I got up and walked out, embarrassed because I was with a girl. The day we went back to school after break, he confronted me in
the hall, pushed me against a locker, grabbed me by the front of my shirt and called me a "pussy" for not going to the "party" over christmas. I snapped. I broke his hands free, pushed him back and told him, calmly, that I hadn't known about any party and that I was tired of his shit. I asked him if he was ready to end it now, go outside and fight me. I told him I knew he'd probably kick my ass, but I didn't care, I do some damage. He looked at me for a few seconds and said, "'bout time you stood up for yourself." He never bothered me after that.

Doug2, 30
Kansas City, KS USA

Sort of.

Karen, 23
Ames, IA USA

Ohhh yes. In high school. I'll never forget it ~ but it wasn't because I was dorky or overweight... it was during the racial rioting in the late 60s early 70s ... and I was viewed as an easy target.

Fisch, 47
Preston, CT USA

Yes. My grade were high, I was female and I lived on "Snob Hill". Obviously I just thought I was Smart Because and had to be taken down a peg.

Jill, 61
Saylorsburg, PA USA

No, never. I had arguments with others, but I was never bullied.

Aly, 17
Cardiff UK

Yeah, I used to get my ass kicked in grade school. Every single kid in my class was somehow related to everyone else except me, so they just beat the shit out of me all the time.

A-Dog, 20
Eugene, OR USA

Once in a while. For the most part kids ignored me in grade school. In junior and senior high school I had plenty of friends.

Laura, 38
Lowell, MA USA

Yes, on occasion. I remember one time when I was about 8 or 9, two bullies from my bus walked behind me and kept kicking at me and kicking dust at me. They didn't hurt me, but when I got home I was so humiliated by what happened that I went running to my father crying hysterically. Well, it so happens that my father called the father of one of those boys. The bully boy's father came to my house that evening, dragging his son with him. He actually made the boy kneel at my feet and beg my forgiveness...all the while beating the poor kid in front of me! It was terrible! I felt so bad for the poor kid, so embarrassed by what I was seeing that I ran out of the house, hid in
the bushes and bawled!

Tam

Not sure if I have anything that has caused me so much pain it seem to linger. There are of couse, unrequited loves, lost competitions, and career stumbles, but none walk with me day to day.

Felicia, 37
Lowell, MA USA

I was the bully

Stephanie, 27
TX USA

Yes. All thru gade school. I hated it. Never wanted to go to school. I make sure that my children know that you don't have to be cruel to some one you don't like. It could be you the next day.

KarenNJ, 25
Milltown, NJ USA

yes

Melodi, 19
Gahanna, OH USA

nope

Cara, 19
Valparasio, IN USA

No, but I sure feel sorry for anyone who was.

Reba, 57
Gaithersburg, MD USA

Slightly. But after dealing with my dad they always came across as amateurs and couldn't get much of a reaction from me. They moved on.

Alias Irrelevante

No.

Jane, 63
West Linn, OR USA

Yes, and sexually assaulted.

Keri-Jade, 23
Brampton, Ontario CANADA

Yesterday / Tomorrow