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How
would you define love?Around the time we fell in love, my boyfriend (now husband)
defined love as: Redefining yourself in terms of another person. It took me a long
time to understand that, but I think there is a lot of truth in that definition.
Laura, 35
Lowell, MA
USA
I WOULD DEFINE LOVE A STRONG DEVOTION
USUALLY A PASSIONATE AFFECTION TO THE OPPOSITE SEX AN INTENSE FONDNESS AND DEEP DEVOTION
TO ONE. ONE THAT YOU MIGHT WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH. YOU CAN ALSO HAVE A
DEEP DEVOTION BUT NOT PASSIONATE WITH A FRIEND OR OTHER PERSON SUCH AS A CHILD,
GRAMDMOTHER, AUNT, PARENT OR OTHER PERSON.
Marci, 55
Diamond, OH
USA
I would define love as a mutual energy given
by two people that makes life a little easier and tolerable. There is no stress, hate, or
jelousy in love. It is pure and undescribable.
Stephanie, 24
TX USA
Love is feeling of total selflessness...a
willingness to give up what makes YOU happy if the person you love can be happy.
Reba, 50
Rockville, MD
USA
I wouldn't. Any definition can't
possibly be 100% true to the idea. Just grok it.
Jesse, 24
Bowie, MD
USA
A deep emotion characterized by care,
giving, and warmth.
Tina, 31
Medford, MA
USA
It's the next step up from "not 'like'
but 'like like.'"
Alias Irrelevante
Love is a frame of mind.
Jill, 59
Saylorsburg, PA USA
Definetly acceptance of another. Common
interest, helps to seal the package.
Fish
Port Dover CANADA
Books have been written on this!
Passion is not love, although it may lead to love. Enduring love is the state in which the
happiness/well-being/future of the person loved is more important than your own.
Jane, 60
West Linn, OR
USA
A state of being where your are not the
center of all there is.
Felicia, 34
Lowell, MA
USA
Love means never having to say "What do
you MEAN you cheated?" (sorry, hadda say it)
Fisch, 45
Preston, CT
USA
Love is a special feeling inside you, unique
to every person. Every person, once they discover what this feeling feels like, can
experience love all the time...be it love for a person, animal, beautiful place, emotional
thought, etc. Everyone experiences love in MANY different ways, it's just that some people
haven't opened their eyes to it and sadly some people never will!
Tracy, 24
Ocean City, NJ USA
I suppose it would be caring more about
their happiness (whether human or creature) than your own.
Mick, 30
Chicago, IL
USA
You can't define it, it just is...
but i'm not in a good position to talk about love right
now, I just got an e-mail from my ex-boyfriend, so I'm a little pissed off.
Dianne, 16
Oshawa, Ontario CANADA
I'd try to avoid the question as much as
possible. . .It's certainly a feeling. . .I know it when I feel it, and I do have the good
fortune of feeling it quite frequently. . .It's an intense positive focus. . .or somesuch.
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mothmc, 36
Los Angeles, CA USA
Defining things gets me into trouble--just
ask Solomon or Allison.
Karen, 21
Marshelltown/Ames, IA USA
Love in it's purest form is the most amazing
feeling in the world. It's when you're sharing your total being with this other person
whom you can't imagine life without, who you can't stop thinking about and whose flaws you
seem to totally ignore. It's when you find yourself doing strange, crazy things to just
try and see them or talk to them and you
Natalia
Personally I don't think you can define
love... you just know what it is and what it feels like when you experience it.
Jeremy, 13
Highlands Ranch, CO USA
Love is a crazy feeling you can't
define.
Savannah
Why should I
attempt to define it when the poets do it so much better than I do?
Amy, 23
New Orleans, LA USA
risking it all to do anything for the person
you love
Jade, 16
AUSTRALIA
Amy
Anthony, 25
Baton Rouge, LA USA
Love is only what you let it mean to you.
It's an emotion and doesn't really have a definition. I do believe, though, that it
exists in its purest form when it is a mutual feeling.
Eric, 18
Beverly Hills, CA USA
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