June 8, 2000    
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What is it you value in a life mate?

Trust, honesty, and he has to be able to accept me for who I am. A life mate is willing to change with you over time.

Katie, 24
Seminole,  FL

truthfulness

Laura, 35
Lowell
, MA

Honesty, a great sense of humor, and a killer smile.

Lindsay, 21
Harrisonburg,
VA

Laughter, and honesty,

Helena, 31
Sydney AUSTRALIA

Honesty above all, compassion, love, humor, intelligence, sexual compatibility, and the ability to feel. I lucked out with Anthony I guess. (insert sickening groan from the audience here)

Amy, 23
Baton Rouge,
LA

You know what, I don't know. I am very happy with my Amy, so I guess she is what I was looking for. I think deep inside I was waiing for a supermodel who teleported into my bedroom and told me that her galaxy needed my help.   And I still am, the problem is that Amy would kick that alien model's ass for being in my room and an entire galaxy would be doomed.

Heh-heh...catfight. Cool.

Anthony, 25
Baton Rouge,
LA

Integrity, intelligence and a sense of humor.

Jill, 59
Saylorsburg,
PA

I don't know much about life mates, but I do know I'd like to have someone who's willing to accept me for who I am and listen to me... they'd have to love me completely, or else I guess I wouldn't consider them a life mate.

Jeremy, 13
Highlands Ranch,
CO

the ability to perform hand stands. Cartwheels are optional, but there's nothing like a man with a killer hand stand.

Jaden, 21
Brampton, Ontario CANADA

Definitely a sense of humor, it can get you through a lot of bad times. Understanding, the ability to listen, the ability to care about others around you and maybe a nice butt.

Kathy, 26
Garden City
, MI

I started to make a list, but it sounded so boring. You know, I value the stuff most people value: emotional support, loyalty, a "best friend", intelligence, sense of humor....blah,blah, blah....but I think this is the most important: An unconditional acceptance of my strange quirks and

Susan, 31
Chicago,
IL

TRUST!!

Tracy, 24
Ocean City,
NJ

A great sense of humor, compassion, kindness, the ability to move with ease on a dance floor and one of the most important ones--Passion you have to have that spark alive through all your days and nights together. Being a great kisser is something you will never tire of either. That alone has had the ability to get my husband out of several screw ups! Oh, and I could never share my life with any one who didn't like animals.

Pamela, 38
Sugar Hill,
GA

What most people probably value: honesty, compassion, thoughfulness, intelligence, sense of purpose, self-confidence. ButI absolutely need to have a person that loves all of me, but is willing to challenge me when they think I am way off target on something. Oh, and an intolerant person will have zilch chance of sharing my life with me.

Felicia, 34
Somerville
, MA

Friendlyness and trustworthiness. Also, she has be a fun person and bring out the best in me. It's also nice that I compliment her as well, so we form a symbiotic relationship.

Socrates One
Lowell, MA

Passion. Romance. Great backrubs. Good conversation. Support in all of my endeavors. Unfortunately, my husband isn't fulfilling any of these at the moment. Ahh, love on the rocks, certainly something everyone experiences. Is there such a thing as a life mate? At this moment, not a chance in hell!

Kate, 19
Bellingham,
WA

Honesty, the ability to make me laugh, and laugh at themselves and a willingness to admit if/when they are wrong.

Nikki, 27
Kirkham
ENGLAND

Honesty, intelligence, the ability to make me laugh, and the same interests as me. My life mate would be someone who I could sit up talking to until 3 in the morning about cucumbers.

Shanna, 15
Cardiff ENGLAND

Honesty, trustworthiness, a good sense of humor, a good ability to communicate, a passion for movies & sports, and someone who says "Bless you" when I sneeze.

Nicole
Elk Grove, CA

Loving, caring, intelligent, good sense of humor.

Jane, 60
West Linn,
OR

Compatibility.

Karen, 20
Marshelltown/Ames,
IA

a horny bitch

Janet, 42
E. Brunswick,
NJ

Yesterday / Tomorrow