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children be taught to believe in Santa Claus?I think the Santa Claus legend
begins to prepare children for understanding a vast range of invisible personifications.
When the legend is revealed as legend, the child has taken a step towards adulthood.
Further, putting that jolly gentleman in change of giving protects parents from having to
counter naked greed. Mommies and Daddies can be mean and penny pinching. Santa Claus is
Santa Claus and his judgment is final--and above reproach.
Jill, 60
Saylorsburg, PA USA
Sitting at home missing my
girlfriend of nearly thirteen months. Ex-girlfriend
now. I haven't had the will to do much these past few days...Why was it that I wanted so
badly to be single?
This all has nothing to do with Santa Claus.
A-Dog, 15
McMinnville, OR USA
No, they should be taught reasoning skills
and a work ethic.
Alias Irrelevante
The kids who didn't believe in Santa, when I
was little, were absolute brats, telling all the kids who did believe that it wasn't true.
Kid figure things out when they're ready, I think. Believing in Santa is so exciting--why
take that away from them? A little whimsy in such a harsh world is not a bad thing.
Karen, 21
Marshelltown/Ames, IA USA
Sure, why not... It's great to have an
imagination when you're little. Personally, i loved wondering about Santa!
Sarah S., 17
Ithaca, NY
USA
Absolutely. When else am I going to get free
cookies?
Amy, 24
New Orleans, LA USA
Of course they should.
Laura, 35
Lowell, MA
USA
Kids should be allowed to believe in Santa
Claus. I mean, jeez, when they grow up they will have plenty of time to have their spirit
crushed by the world. They should be allowed to be kids.
Mick, 30
Chicago, IL
USA
I can only speak for how I would raise my
own kids: I can't see anything wrong with it whatsoever. Kids just need a little fun and
magic and fantasy. And, sometimes believing in Santa when you're young helps you graduate
to seeing the joy in PLAYING Santa when you get older (that's what happened with me,
anyway).
Kim, 30
New York, NY
USA
Children shouldn't be TAUGHT about Santa
Claus but they certainly shouldn't be discouraged if they do.
Reba, 51
Rockville, MD
USA
yeah i think so
Savannah
Yes! Why shouldn't children be
allowed to have a little magic in their lives? It
doesn't hurt them to believe in him. One of my happiest memories from being a kid is the
ritual my family went through every year to get ready for Santa. We'd leave out the milk
and cookies, we'd put out carrots on the doorstep for the reindeer. It was great.
Santa is just another nice fairy tale for kids, learning he isn't real is just a part of
growing up.
Maggie, 20
Sandwich, IL
USA
No, because Christmas is about the birth of
Jesus, not getting presents & worshiping a fake jolly man.
Melodi, 19
Hlliard, OH
USA
definitely. santa claus is one of the
reasons why christmas was so fun when we were younger. we all lost a lot of holiday spirit
when we stopped believing.
Karen2, 15
Boston, MA
USA
Probably not, but I guess they might as well
get used to deception and betrayel at an early age. It toughens them up for Real Life.
Susan, 32
Chicago, IL
USA
I don't know. I don't think it would
do any harm. My parents never taught me to believe in Santa though, and I turned out
pretty well.
Shanna, 15
Cardiff ENGLAND
Hmmm... well, I know that when my parents
told me about him I didn't really believe in him. I found out that he wasn't real when I
was really young, and it didn't do anything to me.
Jeremy, 13
Highlands Ranch, CO USA
The more wonder and mystery in life the
better.
Felicia, 34
Lowell, MA
USA
Absolutely.
Jane, 60
West Linn, OR
USA
Yes and so should adults
Jami, 27
Lowell, MA
USA
I have heard so many different views
on this subject and all of them have good and bad points, but I'll tell you what...there's
nothing like seeing that "sparkle" in a child's eye when they talk about Santa.
Most of us believed in him at one time and we turned
out OK so I'd have to say that my children will believe in Santa. As they get older they
will understand why we "lied." Personally I believe in a Santa, whoever he or
she may be. If you've never read The Polar Express by Chris Van Allsburg...read it. And if
you have, I still hear the bell!!
Tracy, 24
Ocean City, NJ USA
I don't think children should be taught to
BELIEVE in Santa Claus, but letting them have fun with the idea is great. When I was a
child, my parents did things just right, they let me play with the idea but they never
said anything like, "yes there is a Santa Claus", but they didn't say
"don't wait up for Santa Claus, he's not real" either. So, I had fun with the
idea, but they always taught me the REAL meaning of Christmas.
Lisa J., 22
TN USA
Of course! If anything, that should be the
only thing they are taught about Christmas. None of that religious bull.
Dianne, 16
Oshawa, Ontario CANADA
I think it depends on how much
tradition one wishes to keep in their family. I don't
know how I'd feel about Christmas today without all of the traditions my mother kept alive
for me - from the decorating, to the planning, tales of Santa, going to church on
Christmas Eve at midnight as a family, caroling, and visiting those we loved on the
holiday. I believe Santa is part of the entire process. I don't see it as some awful lie
parents tell their kids. I still have Santa in my heart...as a big part of Christmas. Some
of my fondest memories involve lying in bed on Christmas Eve and imagining the sleigh on
its long journey. I realize many folks think of it as no more than some fantastic fib and
choose not to share it with their kids. That's fine - but for me, I think I'd have missed
out on some of the most wonderful memories of Christmas's past if not for the mystery of
Santa. I hold nothing against those who choose not to keep the dream alive -- but I do
think it's sad that some people can't seem to just view it as part of a great tradition
because they need to read too much into it. Why not allow kids that dream while it
lasts. I don't know any child who grew up wanting to disown their parents for sharing this
tradition.
Fisch, 45
Preston, CT
USA
I believe children should be children and
shouldn't be forced to grow up too fast even if it means telling them to belive in
fairies, santa clause and magic. It expands their imigination and shapes their minds for
when they are adults.
Stephanie, 25
TX USA
I never
stressed the Santa thing. I am a Christian and believe in Jesus Christ, so I didn't want
them to believe in Santa and have me tell them Santa's not real but that Jesus Christ is.
Janet, 42
E. Brunswick, NJ USA
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